Dating After the Death of a Spouse

Dear Eve, I lost my soul mate when he died after twenty-eight years together and now, I’m ready to jump back into the dating pool and get wet. I’ve had two husbands and am not looking for marriage again. What I would really like to find is a companion to...

Flirting with the Unavailable

Hi, After fifteen years of marriage, I am back in the dating pool. I have known this gentleman for two years and he and I have flirted back and forth the whole time. He now has a girlfriend of one year, but never speaks positive of her. He still flirts a lot and at...

What Am I Doing Wrong When It Comes to Love?

Dear Eve, I am just not successful in love. I go out on dates, maybe even go out with someone for a few months, but at some point they always break up with me or call it off. I am not sure what I am doing wrong. The most recent woman just said that she didn’t feel...

Getting Back Together with Ex…

Dear Eve, I am about to return to a relationship with a man I am married to, but have lived away from for the last five years. I am going to try again, but need some new communication skills. Please help.   Aloha, This relationship must have some really wonderful...