Sharpen Your 2020 Hindsight/ 2020 Vision

As we settle into the new year—2020 (a number that sounds a lot like science fiction to me (the older you are, the more you can relate), I can’t help but ponder the other use of the term 2020—representing visual acuity. At this turning point, we have the opportunity...

Breaking Relationship Patterns

Dear Eve, I have a great fear of being attracted to the same type of person as my ex-husband. I have been separated now almost three years and hope to be divorced very soon. There will never be a reconciliation. He is a man who plays mind games and is obsessed with...

Dealing with a Friend who is Always Late

Hello Eve, I teach a movement class called ‘Nia’ and one of the regular attendees of my classes has also become a good friend over the last four years.  I’m feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place as a friend/teacher, in that this woman is...

Dating After the Death of a Spouse

Dear Eve, I lost my soul mate when he died after twenty-eight years together and now, I’m ready to jump back into the dating pool and get wet. I’ve had two husbands and am not looking for marriage again. What I would really like to find is a companion to...

Flirting with the Unavailable

Hi, After fifteen years of marriage, I am back in the dating pool. I have known this gentleman for two years and he and I have flirted back and forth the whole time. He now has a girlfriend of one year, but never speaks positive of her. He still flirts a lot and at...